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Are We Failing to Let People Struggle?

Are We Failing to Let People Struggle?
May 14 Tags: questions | 1 Response Print Save as PDF

I have been reading in Romans, and saw something interesting that Paul says in the middle of his argument in Romans 3:

“But if our unrighteousness serves to show the righteousness of God, what shall we say? That God is unrighteous to inflict wrath on us? (I speak in a human way.)” 

Romans 3:5

A human question

Let’s take note of Paul’s parenthetical statement: “I speak in a human way.” He brings up a natural human response or question to the argument he is making about the gospel: is God unrighteous or vindictive in pouring out His wrath on us?

It’s a reasonable question (the answer is no, but Paul still brings the question up). He does this throughout the whole letter—a human question, followed by the gospel answer.

It’s ok to have questions

Couple this with how the Psalmist addresses God (particularly at the beginning of Lament Psalms), and we see that it’s perfectly valid to approach God and His Word with intense questions or feelings of doubt.

This made me think about (1) the way we treat young believers who question the faith, and (2) how we view and treat unbelievers.

  1. Do we allow young believers to ask the hard questions—ones that question our theological framework or the very foundations of faith and belief? Or does our mindset or environment discourage them from asking these questions?
  2. Do we interact with unbelievers with patience and kindness—even those that (in our estimation) are really sinful? Or do we treat unbelievers harshly because we expect them to be moral people, or think that they should “know better”?

Gentleness and respect

We often quote the middle portion of 1 Peter 3:15, which encourages us to always be “prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you.”

But we often fail to quote the end of the verse: “yet do it with gentleness and respect.” Are we gentle with those who doubt the faith? Do we share the gospel with unbelievers respectfully

We must let people honestly struggle. 

And let the scriptures honestly answer. 

The ultimate example

This calls us to not rely on pat or easy answers, but to pursue a deeper understanding of the gospel as revealed in God’s Word, and how it answers the deepest questions of life.

And it also calls us to treat believers and unbelievers (all people) with kindness and respect—signs of deep love for them. 

This is how Jesus—who was the epitome of grace and truth—viewed people as He shared the gospel with them (see Matt. 9:35-36). We should be like Jesus. May our prayer be, in the words of an old hymn:

Let me look at the crowd as my Savior did,
Till my eyes with tears grow dim,
Let me look till I pity the wandering sheep
And love them for love of Him.

Dear Lord I ask for the eyes that see
Deep down to the world’s sore need,
I ask for the love that holds not back,
But pours out itself indeed;

I want that passionate power of prayer;
That yearns for the great crowd’s soul,
I want to go ‘mong the fainting sheep,
And tell them my Lord makes whole.

R.A. Jarvie

Jesse Fullan

A husband and father of 3, Jesse is striving (1) to be a true disciple of Jesus and (2) to make more disciples of Jesus. He works as Director of Publications & Communications at Emmaus International. Jesse is active in ministry in his church, and has led music for over 15 years in assemblies, churches, camps, schools, and at conferences. His passion in music ministry is reviving and updating classic hymns of the faith, and he also writes hymns and worship songs.

One Response to Are We Failing to Let People Struggle?

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    Kathy Stephenson

    I appreciated these thoughts. In my early 20s, I almost abandoned faith because of pat answers to very real questions. Thankfully I discovered Francis Schaffer. God’s truth does not fear questions….even if we don’t currently know the answers. I also appreciated the reminder to be kind and respectful. Last night I was talking with two people who work with the persecuted church and encounter many Muslims. They said it is easy for the unbeliever to throw stones from a distance but if you walk with them arm in arm….it is difficult for them to continue throwing stones. An interesting thought.

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